Contrary to popular belief, you don't need a working knowledge of 52 sex positions or a background in porn to be ridiculously good in bed. Instead, it comes down to more subtle and realistic factors that you may already posses. And if you don't, we're here to help you hone the skills you really need to blow your partner's mind. Whether it's hearing out your partner's fantasy or allowing yourself to really identify your own, being open to different desires and turn-ons is essential in a partner, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph. So put aside your judgments and really listen to the desires of you and your partner. You may find that you're into some really interesting stuff.
And follow Redbook on Pinterest for more. A few well-placed dirty words on the mattress will make him want to exactly whatever you're saying. Next time you wake up after a sexy subconscious scorcher, tell him first thing in the morning. Chances are, you'll be in for some morning sex. A slow, steady exhale makes for more than good yoga: It's the secret behind toe-curling orgasms. But even if you don't know a downward dog from a hot dog, you can still master this momentous-sex must.
This Yes-Or-No Quiz Will Reveal If You're Good At Sex
My issue is that I have never felt truly pleasured in bed. I have never even been able to orgasm by myself. Am I broken? This is extremely common — especially at your age.
In case you need a reminder that every person and body is wildly different, enjoy the below story, originally published in June , wherein 47 women over the age of 47 weigh in on the state of their sex lives. No topic was off-limits. Read their illuminating responses below. Now, do we have sex a lot??? NO, but I must say when we do, it is still very good.