There's this thing guys do in the throes of hot sex , and you might not even notice. We pause, and we look. Because when you're totally in the moment, you put on one hell of a sexy show, and we love to watch. The thing is, visual cues are a major part of the sexual response for men. Your body has a hypnotic power over us—during sex or otherwise.
You might have even experienced it for yourself — that instant physical chemistry that can be difficult to understand, let alone control. Yet scientists have spent decades researching the mental and physical processes that influence attraction. In fact, humans may be hardwired to see traits that could help ensure survival as sexy, according to some psychologists. On a purely physical level, this can mean heterosexual men are often drawn to female partners that look healthy or fertile. For example, hair tends to become thin and dull in times of sickness, so thick, shiny hair may be considered attractive. Straight men also tend to favor smaller waist-to-hip ratios in women. Possibly because chronic illnesses like diabetes change fat distribution, making waist-to-hip ratio an indicator of health.
A high-quality man who knows what he wants will not settle for just any woman to build a meaningful relationship with. Men like this want a woman who exudes high character. And though she may be beautiful on the outside, he expects her inner worth to be far superior to the women around her. Although different men want very different things, there are certain feminine qualities that all commitment-able men look for when choosing a long-term mate. Only the woman who possesses these feminine qualities will find attracting men - quality men - to be both an effortless and rewarding activity.
We all like vaginas. Does it change sex in any way? And what happens if you put coke up there?